I read something this morning that totally wiped me out. It also made me very angry. It is an article about Obesity by Shannon Brownlee in the New York Times. It is totally heartless and mean. Ms Brownlee obviously doesn't have a clue what it means to be overweight. She suggests that we treat obesity like smoking and punish obese people for being fat. Someone being fat is not going to affect someone else, you can't die from lung cancer from breathing the same air as an obese person.This is just another thing that we can make people who have a problem about. It is not like they haven't been shunned enough, she is trying to make them feel even worse for being overweight. Doesn't she know that obesity isn't at all like smoking. Especially now, when we are no longer bombarded by endless commercials and advertisements about smoking. When I smoked, I tried lots of times to quit, but all those commercials showing how 'cool' it was just enforced my behavior. Then, they banned cigarette commercials, I quit and it worked. I haven't even had an urge to smoke in years.
This country is constantly bombarded by food advertisements. Not to mention cooking programs that promote butter and sweets. We have famous chefs that are promoting cooking that is "retro." "Use butter and sugar, it doesn't hurt you. You deserve this." Do we deserve all those calories? Just sitting here watching TV, in the last 3 minutes, I have seen commercials for cookies, sugar laden 'healthy' cereal, chunky cheap soup full of fat and calories, fiber, vitamins, chocolate truffles, and even an insurance commercial that mentions 'ramen noodles.'Everything we do seems to be centered around food, our holidays, business, dates, government, shopping, watching TV, etc. When you are constantly offered food, how do you expect people to react? When you try a diet, there are always people around who are trying to upset it. Don't they know that if you eat that piece of chocolate or pie, there goes the diet?
Ray and I were doing so well, until we went to the convention in Richmond. There was the most wonderful piece of chocolate cake that we have ever seen set on the table in front of us. How could we not eat it? The awful thing is, it was like a kick start of sugar. The next day when I went around all the booths at the convention, I was practically bombarded with candy at every booth. I think they were all trying to get rid of all their Halloween candy. I kept reaching down in the bag during the meeting, getting chocolate to eat. I craved it and I found out that Ray was doing the same thing.When we got home, there was no more chocolate, but I found some wonderful fruit cake that I put in the freezer last Christmas. You can imagine how that tasted. A little freezer burn, but what is that for a person on a diet? Just a little bite. So good. Then, after quite a few 'bites' all the fruit cake is gone. Now I am craving and starting the life plan all over again.
Please don't punish overweight people, we punish ourselves enough. It is not like people haven't made fun of us or belittled us all our lives, with comments like "it is just baby fat,' 'she is pretty in the face, if she would just lose weight, she would be a beautiful girl,' 'have a cookie dear, just one won't hurt,' 'You are not overweight, just under-tall,' or my step-dad's favorite 'if someone told you to haul ass, you would have to make two trips."
How do you think it makes someone feel to be constantly be berated about their weight on one hand and then on the other hand, told that just a little won't hurt you? A 'normal' weight or a 'thin' person wouldn't know how hard this is. Quit offering me food all the time. Quit making those hurtful remarks that make us depressed and just want to fill the void with food.
Making people feel bad about their addictions, just feeds the addictions. It doesn't matter whether it is cigarettes, food, alcohol, or drugs.
One of the best quotes I have come up with is "When there is a choice, be kind." There is a choice and we should all be kind to each other.This is the link to the article: I really hate to put this on there and promote her hate speech, but you all need to see this. Please feel free to make comments here. This really needs to be talked about. What is your opinion?
Send this link to others and let them chime in with their opinion. I feel like the guy in the movie that said "I am mad as hell, and I am not going to take it anymore!"
We need to make obesity more socially unwelcome, says @ShannonBrownlee http://ti.me/vUwoIg via @TIMEIdeas
By the way, I apologize for using a couple of mild swear words, the effect of the words would have been diminished if I had changed them. I don't normally use them, but there are some that I consider mild and not hurtful. There are some that seem to be everyday words for some people, but not for me.
